Not limited to the skill of the modern style of speech and the quality of its content .. Indeed, good listening is an art of arts dialogue, and how people spoke and they do not want to have dialogue that, but who want to listen to them Abouhoa including chests.!




And craftsmanship are listening to: the ear, and the tip of the eye, and the presence of the heart, and shining face, and not busy with preparations for the reply, fully motivated Mtothba waiting for an interview .. your friend!



Remember, you will not be able to understand the reality of what Murad interlocutor were not willing to seriously listen to his speech .. The speaker does not know your speech keeps the hearing .. The Root biography written by a young man in the TALK 'Ata' ibn Abi Rabah; Vonst him as if he heard his speech for the first time, and when he finished and left the young man surprised the audience of the tender, he said: God, I know that he said before he was born ..!



By man out of me if Khasamth *** and was ignorant of the dream answer response
You see and listen to talk *** and reputation of his heart and perhaps know it ..!



Well informed and to listen what is its impact in the first interview, and in meetings in transit; good impact of such meetings in the soul; and that the dialogue be a year in which does not require intervention more often than not, the impression is formed in which each individual from the other .. How many people praised the good dialogue with so and so it prolongs the silence ..!



The wise men said: "Your silence until Tstntq, Ntqk even more beautiful than silence" ..!



Says, "Dale Carnegie": "The more people drier in printing, and ruggedness to say, but that does not have softened, and that affected the patient listener, compassionate, if you take refuge in silence interlocutor anger" ..!



Said one of the Elders of the Arabs: "If scientists Jalst Vonst them .. If Jalst Vonst them also ignorant; Ansatk in the increase of the scientists in science, and in Ansatk ignorant of the increase in the dream" ..!



And Ibn Abd Rabbo in the "unique contract" for some wise words to his son: "Son, you know .. good listening as well learn to talk, but people know that you are keen to hear from you to say."




Some people make mistakes and exaggerating the degree of listening to the wisdom colloquial speech citing "Speech is silver but silence is gold!"


Vlhala I say: do not speak of what we know of this statement ..!


So what more accurate understanding of bigeye when he said: "It is not silence all the best speech of all, do not talk all the best of all silent, but has taught us that the general public of the best silence to speak" ..!



And not shy of talking a good thing, it may be that those who lack the skill Saket talk or by Alhnevsah Kalrhab social, or personality disorder makes him avoid talking to others.

((** Incident in his name **))